The
greatest thing about spending the time doing this is that our kids actually
learned something about the Gospel reading. Then, when they’d hear the words
proclaimed on Sunday at Mass, they’d remember a little something about the
story and would smile and nod to us that they were remembering it.
Years
have passed, and now our only children still at home are ages 18, 15, and 13. Instead of I
Want to be Jesus!, we use the book, At
Home with the Word. This book
includes all of the Sunday Mass readings for a given year, as well as
commentary and questions. As a family, we try to read the readings every week
after an evening meal to prepare for the upcoming Sunday Mass. We don’t just read the Bible readings
together, but instead we talk about what is happening in the reading and what
the themes are in all the readings together.
Since this discussion usually takes a little time, the three kids -
being typical teenagers - suddenly remember how much homework they have or that
they need to practice music or do some other pressing project to try to get out
of sharing the Word this way. And so,
week after week, we remind them about how important it is to prepare for the
weekly Liturgy by listening to and talking about the three readings and psalm before
we hear them at Mass. They grimace and shake
their heads and put their heads down on the kitchen table, but we do it anyway.
They
come around slowly, often because something in the story peaks their interest
and they ask a question about the culture at the time or why God seems to be
angry or why Jesus is acting in a certain way.
But, the important thing is that they do come around. It sometimes seems that it would be easier to
just not do it “this” week so we don’t have to hear them complain. But, we keep on working at it. It’s a great thing when they turn and look at
us during Mass and smile and nod because they understand what they are hearing
and remember the story that we read together earlier in the week. That makes it all worthwhile! It’s great for
us as adults to prepare for Mass in this way, too.
Do
you read the Lectionary readings with your family to prepare for Mass? Could you share how you do it?
If
you’d like to start reading the readings during the week before Mass with your
family, I suggest you start by reading just the Gospel together and talking
about what the story means. You can find
the weekly readings here at the USCCB website.
Enjoy the time together and make it as fun as you can!
Lenten
Peace!
Danny
G.
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